I just had a cold calling nightmare experience, and it’s the best experience I could have had.
It wasn’t even a cold call-more like a lukewarm call. I was calling the general manager of one of the oldest and most prestigious private clubs in Manhattan, following up on a personal letter of introduction I wrote that contained the name of a mutual acquaintance. This acquaintance is also the manager at my my private club and has an outstanding reputation.
The greeting by the receptionist was cordial and warm. I explained that I was a business advisor to private clubs, and asked to speak to Mr. (name), the general manager. She passed me on immediately. The general manager answered the phone and, before I could finish my introduction, was told that the club didn’t need any help, and goodbye.
Not was I expected. Private clubs are known for two things: gracious manners and not admitting that they need help. So, being told that they didn’t need help was not surprising- how I was told was.
I do not enjoy making unannounced calls, so I had pushed myself in this case. I expected some resistance, but also expected a one-sentence opportunity to explain my services. This exceeded even my worst case scenario for the call.
But, it wasn’t that bad. I lived through it and my ego is still intact. It also gave me some clues about who to target and how to change my introduction, so there was a learning lesson involved. And, I have to go back to my contact and see if there are any hidden issues that I need to learn about myself.
So, I am actually emboldened to try, try again. This may become a game. On the other hand, if only I could get my website to generate more leads…